I Want It, But I Don't Need It

Too many people nowadays are so defined by who they're with or what their status is that they forget who they are. I'll admit, I've been that way when I was in relationships. Therefor when I became single I felt it necessary to repair any burned bridges that occurred while I was in a relationship. I've improved things in my life that I wouldn't have tried to improve while I was in a relationship. I've gotten closer to my family and I've begun to discover who I am aside from someone else. Its not healthy to move seamlessly from one relationship to another like its nothing because you have no chance to grow. Ill never understand why people can't enjoy the solice of being single. You learn so much about yourself and you don't have to censor or inhibit yourself;however, if you can find someone that you are able to truly be yourself with, that's a beautiful thing. A message to people before you complicate someone elses life...live and learn and of course love yourself.