Respect Yourself Ladies

This was kind of the theme for tonight, lol.

I try not to get on the ladies too much about certain things because you like to use the "women are more mature than guys" card. Which is true sometimes...but other times you ladies make me shake my head!

You have to start respecting yourself ladies, or no man will respect you. You wonder why he doesn't call you back, doesn't answer your texts? It's because he doesn't have any respect for you, time to keep it moving don't make yourself look desperate by calling him from your friend's phone to see if he answers, you're just doing too much for 1 person. Try working that hard to gain your own respect rather than some guy's.

Stop giving it up to just anyone and so easily! Women your body's are the temples. You're the one's that are desired, so stop making the chase so easy. If someone gives us a free sandwich everyday, we're gonna love that sandwich for awhile, until we see a new restaurant open up, sure it costs some money, but it's new and we know that if we don't like the food, we'll always have that sandwich, the bottom line is, we lose respect for the sandwich, which is what's happening to you ladies. Now they may not be calling you hoes and sluts as much anymore, but the next gen names are no better; jumpoff, bird, duck, etc.

Guys you don't have a reason to be upset either. I'm not trying to playa hate or block. I'm just saying, what if you have a daughter. Do you want your daughter being some dude's jumpoff? Hell no! I have female cousins. I WHOLE slew of them. I'll be damned if I let a dude disrespect them because they know that before anything else they need to respect themselves. I'm trying to just encourage the ladies to respect themselves more. Don't look for validation from a dude. Some people think nights by yourself are always lonely, well let me tell you, there's nothing lonelier being next to someone who doesn't respect you. At least if you have self-respect, you know you'll be appreciated by someone in the morning. And another thing fellas, everything you do to women comes back around 3 times. So just think about that!

So ladies just think before you act, I'm not dissing you or anything I'm just saying. It's cool to dress sexy, it's NOT cool to wear booty shorts where the booty is actually hanging out. It's cool to dance with the guys, it's NOT cool to give lap dances and hump the dude on the ground. Are you in college to be a teacher or to be a stripper?

-Think. It ain't illegal yet.

-Roderic

A Word On Confidence

Oftentimes we reach a point where we base how we feel about ourselves on what other people say about us. Like when did someone elses validation really matter? But we all do it, we feel crappy because someone said something bad about us, whether it's true or not. In reality, only one person's opinion of you should matter and that's your own. That's why we have people who everyone else thinks is "ugly" out here pulling all these women. It's because Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! And that eye should be your own. People tell themselves that they're attractive and other people start believing it. If you can portray something convincingly enough, you can get anyone to believe anything.

Confidence is the key word. Confidence goes a long way...I mean even Steve Urkel ended up marrying Laura because he was confident in himself no matter how many people put him down. (Us geeks gotta stick together!)

One thing that happens is that people get discouraged with being who they are, so they try to be someone else. But the thing is, you can't be anyone but yourself. You were made the way you were made for a reason and that makes you unique. Don't try to get breasts like Pamela Anderson, that's her role in life, not yours. I've learned to accept my flaws, and continue to accept the new flaws I discover. I know that I'm shy, I can't dance, I can't play basketball, I'm nervous, I worry, I don't have game, and most recently...I'm nearsighted. I can come to terms with these things and still love myself for what I do have and what I can accomplish. Maybe I wasn't meant to be an NBA star or a ballroom dancer or a ladies man, but I was put here for a purpose. We have to accentuate our positives and stop focusing so much on the negatives.

NOBODY is perfect, perfection does not exist in the human race that's why there's the saying NOBODY is perfect, meaning that there is no BODY that is perfect. What makes up a body? Head, shoulders, arms, chest, stomach, legs, feet, toes, fingers, butt. There is no perfect breasts! People who say that someone has the perfect personality...well what's inside the head? The Brain and what does the brain help establish? personality. If the brain is inside the head and the head ain't perfect, then that means there isn't a perfect personality either!

The moral is, no matter how other people view you, the battle starts at home. You have to win the battle with yourself before you try to overcome anybody else. Your mind can be your greatest ally or your worst enemy depending on ho confident you are. And I know how hard it can be. I still struggle with confidence, but I'm getting better at it, and I think people are noticing my changes a little more, which in turn makes me more confident. If you keep it positive, it'll continually grow.


Well that's enough for tonight!